NO SUPPORT FOR DEAF STUDENTS AT KINGSTON !!!
I first applied to study Electrical & Electronic Engineering at Kingston Polytechnic (now Kingston Unviersity) through PCAS. On the PCAS application form, I had put down the schools I had been to.
I then got a letter from a Dr. Jeremy Ingham who was the dean in the School Of Electrical & Electronic Engineering at Kingston Polytechinc. In his letter, he said that he too had a deaf son who also went to one of the schools I had been to. I knew his son who was one of the prefects in the sixth form at the school. He had a really bad acne problem. He was rather very plain and ugly, not very handsome-looking.
Which encouraged me and made me feel positive. So an interview was arranged.
One very early November morning (1989), I went down to Kingston Upon Thames in Surrey for the interview with Dr. Ingham. I was very excited and looking forward to the interview. I arrived there when everyone was still in bed, the street lights were on, and it was still dark.
But, in the interview, I just couldn't understand anything he said. He was very hard to lipread. I pretended to understand everything he said because I didn't want to seem stupid. My heart sank a bit. He did not even try to communicate with me in sign language at all, despite having a deaf son. Then he took me on a tour of the polytechnic, and at the conclusion of the interview, he said that his son (David) was living somewhere in Esher, Surrey. Jerry had this big scale map of Surrey behind his chair in his office.
So when the offers came round in August 1990, I just wasn't sure if Kingston was the right place for me (I was getting cold feet) because there seemed to be no support services in place for deaf students at all, and Jerry never said anything about support services for deaf students. I didn't just want a repeat of the first year I spent at college after leaving school where I learned absolutely nothing at all because the college had no support services in place for deaf students at all.
So, on the PCAS replly slip, I put a 'X' in the 'DECLINE' box, put the slip in the envelope and sealed it. Left the envelope on the kitchen table for either mum or bruv to post it.
Mum managed to steam the envelope open, she saw what I had put, she put Tipp-ex on the 'X' in the 'DECLINE' box and put a tick in the 'ACCEPT' box without asking me why I had turned down the offer of a place at Kingston and asking me what I wanted to do instead, she showed me what she did before she put the slip back into the envelope and resealed it.
So, in September 1990, I started at Kingston Polytechnic. In November 1990 (2 months later), stopped going to classes and dropped out of the course. No-one bothered to chase me to ask me why I had stopped going to classes. I just was not getting any spport at all. I then started watching "Neighbours" (the Aussie soap) one day because I was bored.
Then mum and I had a meeting with Dr. Jerry Ingham in his office there in May 1991. He then asked why I hadn't met with my personal tutor. Which surprised me and shocked me because none of the tutors on the course ever bothered to approach me to explain to me that he would be my personal tutor, and I had no idea who I was supposed to be meeting with.
While I was on the Electrical & Electronic Engineering course at Kingston, I became friendly with two of the students who were also on the same course too, and one of them happened to be from Portugal.
I also got this visit from this young man from Derby who was able to communicate with me in sign language (which made me very relieved, I didn't have to write anything on paper) because he had explained that he had learned to sign there because there is a Royal School For The Deaf at Derby so that was how he came to know sign language. He said that he was on the Computing course at Kingston.
I got chatting with the Portuguese student through the computer terminals in the computer labs. I liked him, he was very friendly and willing to chat with me, whereas none of the other students on the E & E Eng course would. The Portuguese explained that he had applied for a transfer to the Computing course and he got it.
So the young man from Derby and the Portuguese student got me thinking about getting a transfer to the Computing course at Kingston.
So I then asked Dr. Jerry Ingham for a transfer to the Computing course. Instead of arranging a transfer to the computing course, he immediately dropped me from the E & E Eng course. Why?
When I said to the Portuguese student that Jerry had dropped me from the course instead of putthing thorugh a transfer to the computing course, he (the Portuguese student) said that the polytechnic probably needed his EU ERASMUS grant (which allowed EU students to study at UK universities) more than they needed my LEA money, and I agreed with him.
I left Kingston after the May 1991 interview with Jerry, and I was very glad to leave because I hated the whole place.
3 April 2025
Unprompted review