Firstly, it is worth saying i have met girls off the site that are genuine and are fantastic, and i believe all the profiles are genuine, and the girls are all there for different reasons, some just f... See more
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Met my match on Secret Benefits
Hi. My name is Niles. I'm happy to share I met the woman of my dreams on Secret Benefits. We are very happy together. Many thanks.
Secretbenefits.com is 🔥
Secretbenefits.com is 🔥
I only wish I knew the last 2 years that I've been single and struggling to meet women.
Just putting myself out there and showing interest has provided many great chats as well as dates with some of the most beautiful women I've ever met.
Very nice looking site
Very nice looking site. Many good looking profiles. I recognize a few from other sites.
What's most interesting is my current chat with a complete babe. 2 weeks strong and can't say anything bas about their service.
-Mike W.
Got my new years date on sb
I am happy taking the time to start an SB profile and to look for a companion to travel with.
mission is successful!
There are a few scams on here but if…
There are a few scams on here but if you report them, They're taken down. Its a lil pricey but I've met quite a bit of women on here that turned out alot of nice encounters
They create FAKE ‘Likes’ and Messages! Scam!
I started in August 2023. Set up an account to view profiles. I then spent over $400 in November and December reaching out to over 80 women that had either ‘liked’ me or sent me a message. Most of these had both liked my profile and sent me a direct message. Out of more than 80 reply’s to these direct messages, only 5 messages back! They scam people by sending them fake likes and messages to get them to spend their credits. It is possible many of these are from fake profiles too.
I complained yesterday on Dec 23rd and told them of the issue and asked for a refund of the $400+ That I have spent. I also messaged all 80+ women to ask and confirm if they had actually liked my profile or messaged me, or if there account was hacked or if it was sent by a bot. Secretbenefits.com then deleted and cancelled my profile!!!! They said they issued a refund but I have seen nothing. I have asked them repeatedly to reinstate my profile and they refused. They have now ceased all communications. No response to the last 3 requests today. This website is a complete scam. Save your $$!!
I’ve had good luck with SB
I’ve had good luck with SB. There are a few scammers, but overall most of the women are real. I’ve meet three sugar babies from the site and gone on a lot of dates. I’ve even had a few one night stands with women from the site. A few were probably escorts, but at least they were real. Even at 65, I’ve met attractive, younger women through the site. It’s definitely not a ripoff site!
I'm a baby that has had some amazing…
I'm a baby that has had some amazing experiences on sb....
Now That's a Sugar Daddy Site for Sure
Joined it the last month. Enjoyed the design. Very easy to understand which buttons to press to get what you want. Cool people with beautiful photos. I was lucky to meet a couple of girls and now in the process of meeting them in real-life. Kinda the accomplishment. ;)
What a fantastic website
What a fantastic website!
This is the first time trying SB and out of the few dating sites I’m on, it’s quickly becoming my favorite.
Outstanding:
1. Interface is perfect
2. Lots of hot women
3. Good response rate
4. Intro videos reduce catfish
5. Credits open convo and no xtra fees
6. 2 Real dates that went very well for me
For these reasons, I highly recommend SB to others looking.
I found a good match and I want to hide…
I found a good match and I want to hide or pause my profile. I'm super excited for this guy so I want him to see I'm serious.
I am looking for a friend and mentor…
I am looking for a friend and mentor for my business. I am open to location as well as travel. I am primarily using secret benefits right now.
*If you are single and there is chemistry I would be open to explore more possibilities
Glad I took the chance
I only joined up because of the positive reviews I saw about this dating website. Glad I did because I’m starting to see a very pretty and sweet young lady after meeting her on Secret Benefits.
I had a pleasant date last night with a…
I had a pleasant date last night with a stunner I met off the site, so yes, it does work as I hoped it would.
Don't believe the positive reviews
Felt so silly to have paid only to find out the messages coming through were fake or lacked intention - 10+ messages after a week of signing up and once you have paid for credit you will quickly find out no one actually responds. I did notice a few girls from my city on the site, so I thought it must be real but I'm sure a lot of the profiles are fake or the girls sign up, their accounts are bombarded and they don't return. Oh well, knew it was too good to be true!
Ive been usung SB fir a number of…
Ive been usung SB fir a number of months now. The reason is that I am only interested in chatting with women at the moment and I found that once I use credits to open a chat that it stays open to continue chatting and the site does not charge monthly so it ends up being much less expensive to connect with women compared to some competitor sites.
I met a great man on SB
Hiya. I would like to share that i signed up to secretbenefits based mostly on reading the positive feedback the service was getting. I'm a single college student looking for a relationship with a mature and supportive man. I have found 2 men that have invited me on dates and I finally decided on one and everything is going really well so far. A heartfelt thanks to SB for provding a dating site that achially works!
total ripoff- the word is starting to get out
While you do get to open a free membership and browse profiles, that's just a tease. The responses will start coming at you which is what you pay for if you wish to respond or view the hidden pictures . I saw a similar review such as mine is going to be and it described exactly what was going to happen. The whole thing is a big scam. Okay, i did bite as the other reviews were so overwhelmingly positive that it seemed to outweigh the one negative outlier i came across. More of the same scam. As soon as you pay for your credits, the messages and permissions to view hidden pictures just pour in from all these beautiful women nearby. You spend 10 credits or so to see the message that was just sent and all they ever say is pretty much the same thing.- that is "Hey there" or" what's up?" or some derivative. Then you look at the permission pics and they are all basically G-rated bathing suits. You can go through a couple $100 in no time, maybe respond to 5 messages and 5 private pics and pretty soon you'll realize what's going on. everything here is a scam right down to the tons of positive ads in this review and everywhere else this site gets reviewed. Once your burn through your initial $200, the responses and pleadings turn up to full blast to try and lure you back for a renewal, but hopefully, you're a lot smarter by this point.

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Giving Secret Benefits a whirl. I have a few matches that I’m chatting. Not really sure what I’m looking for.
One of the best dating sites in sugar dating niche
One of the best dating sites in sugar dating niche. Tested it personally. Very convenient UX, simple design. Experienced several interesting encounters. Would recommend.
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