One star is too much
One star is too much. We booked a Young Driver experience for our 12-year-old son at Lingfield Racecourse through Virgin Experience Days. Unfortunately it was one of the worst experiences we have ever had. The instructor assigned to my son (Lionel) arrived late and immediately began complaining to a colleague that he thought it was his break and that he now had to do “another one”. This conversation took place directly in front of us, which immediately made my already nervous son uncomfortable. He then swore and made a comment about having “another one he can’t swear in front of”.
When speaking to my son he was abrupt and aggressive in tone, asking if he had driven before and if he was nervous. When my son said yes, he challenged him with “why”, despite this being his first time driving and him only being 12 years old. Once they got into the car, they spent around 20 minutes just sitting stationary while other children were driving around the course. My son did not complete even a single lap of the track during the entire 30-minute session. By the end of the lesson my son came back extremely upset, saying the instructor had repeatedly told him he was a bad driver. This is a child who had never driven before and was there for a confidence-building experience. This was supposed to be a fun introduction to driving, but instead it left my son distressed and humiliated. I would strongly urge the company to review the suitability and behaviour of this instructor, as no child should have their confidence knocked like this on their first experience behind the wheel.
UPDATE FOLLOWING THE COMPANY RESPONSE:
Following this review, the company is responding publicly on Trustpilot but hasn't yet bothered contact me directly to understand what happened or resolve the issue.
While their reply describes the instructor’s behaviour as “light-hearted humour”, I do not accept that swearing in front of a 12-year-old, openly complaining about having to run his session, and telling a child he is a “bad driver” can be considered appropriate in any context. The in-car video also supports this.
Regardless of intent, the outcome was that my son left the experience in tears after his very first time driving. He also did not complete a single lap of the track.
It is disappointing that the response focuses on defending the situation and my reaction as a parent, rather than acknowledging the impact on a child or taking clear responsibility.
I am also concerned that there was no clear or immediate way to contact instructors during sessions. As a parent, I find this unacceptable and it raises serious concerns around safeguarding and safety procedures.
The handling of the situation onsite was also poor, with staff prioritising other tasks (fixing two metals posts and then rude about me in front of my son which was caught on the in-car video), before attempting to address my concerns.
I am still awaiting a proper resolution. Absolutely appalling - zero stars.
15 March 2026
Unprompted review