Secretaffairs Reviews 24

TrustScore 1.5 out of 5

1.6

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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

This is obviously a scam site. How else would you describe a site where 'horny' women can't just wait to date a man 3 times their age and with no profile photo. I never bought any coupons to engage... See more

Rated 4 out of 5 stars

I've only been on the site for couple of weeks or so and it's pretty much what I was hoping for so far. I did have to search for a while to find someone suitable in my area and not everyone I contac... See more

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Don't expect to get any real life action out of this site - just an ongoing plea from each 'girl' to buy more credit and keep chatting. In fact clause 8.8 in their Ts & Cs specifically refers to th... See more

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Should have seen that this website was a complete con from the beginning. None of the women I was talking to exist; the respondent(s) whoever they are (probably some little bald bloke in an office som... See more

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  1. Dating Service
  2. Adult Dating Service

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Married dating | Casual encounters | No-string flings | Discreet affairs - Whether you're married, single or attached, if you want to have an affair or a casual relationship this is the website for you. We have thousands of UK men and women looking for...


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TrustScore 1.5 out of 5

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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

This is obviously a scam site

This is obviously a scam site. How else would you describe a site where 'horny' women can't just wait to date a man 3 times their age and with no profile photo. I never bought any coupons to engage any of these girls in conversation as I don't want to waste my money. I'm not sure if they are AI girls or real ones maybe paid for by the site. How else would you get so many attractive girls together. Not a single ugly one. That is just not possible on a dating site. So if you want to waste your money.......!

25 August 2025
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Scam site

Scam site. You're probably talking to cheap labour in the Philippines. Certainly not the women in the photographs. You'll never actually get to meet anyone. Just spend endless money going back and forth with pointless chats. Fortunately this was completely obvious from the very first interaction.

29 July 2025
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

I have spent about £600 GP in the end I…

I have spent about £600 GP in the end I found out all Fack no dating no meeting not even private chat like email or WhatsApp after soo many details exchanged pictures Thay just keeping me texting in end when I ranout of credit all girls not there any moor when I conferented them that this dating site is fake just find out in Google and YouTube 95% is fake I was talking to my money I was very disappointed Thay playing with people feeling broken ❤️ un fare I spoke with over 15 lady all promise dying to meet me just to keep me texting when I have no credit left all of them gon no longer on site is like fishing don't go there froud scam just check before joining Google you tube for feedback and reviews

10 July 2024
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

this is a scam site

this is a scam site, the women are not real. its suppose to be a sex siite the so call women just keep sending nonsense emails to chat and every reply to them costs you money. i would not even give this site 0

18 September 2023
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Definitely a con

Definitely a con, I was talking to a woman who was supposedly from my town so I started playing tricks like asking them what’s your favourite place in the town, just general questions of the area and they did not have no response just things like I want to take it slow, she was first saying explicit things to me then changed when I started talking about the town, I only wasted 20 quid, don’t be a fool like me, please save your money!

17 August 2023
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Thought I would give it a try

Thought I would give it a try, worth a flutter, but it really is nothing more than a scam site. Became obvious when my first contact didn't even know what was on her profile! Unless you want to throw your cash down the drain for an anonymous conversation, don't bother.

27 June 2023
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Don't be conned by 'Secret Affairs' it's all a sham.

Should have seen that this website was a complete con from the beginning. None of the women I was talking to exist; the respondent(s) whoever they are (probably some little bald bloke in an office somewhere) simply try to keep you hooked with sexy chat so that you'll purchase more credits. This is obviously the case because no-one asked to see my photo but were more than happy to promise intimacy.

1 October 2022
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

One big conn

Yes I agree with other people it's a load of rubbish and a scam or con which ever you want to say.ive tried on a number of occasions to cancel my membership on their help section, but no response I'm still receiving emails from female members,
I tried to email their customer services but it came back saying that the recipients email inbox was full and cannot receive any more
I guess I'll just have to just keep on deleting my messages

25 August 2022
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Stay clear!

I have only pressed the 1 star button otherwise I cannot write a review!
Secret Affairs is a con. They take pictures from other sites and claim them to be people living in the UK.
If you look close enough you can see different sockets for electric and other signs that the pictures are foreign.
This site is purely set up for men to purchase credit and talk to apparently women.
These women could be anywhere in the world and who knows not even women. The site is a con to get money out of you and that is it!
Don't get drawn into it, if its too good to be true, it is just that, too good to be true!
Stay away!

22 May 2022
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Steer clear & Never sign up!!

I’ve been trying to remove my profile since I signed up and, found that due to it being credit funded that in the end, it wasn’t for me. Three & a half years on, and four messages of repeating myself, that I wish to have my profile information & account deleted yet completely ignored by this site, I’m still receiving emails from this website, because secretaffairs.co.uk are blatantly to damn lazy to reply & take the requested action(s) I’ve asked them to do for me, This is one website that, I can agree that this website is a scam, is fraudulent, as well as immensely expensive to use, and should be removed by whoever the ombudsman is that deals with these types of websites as they try to bind you to their policy terms of agreement. Unfortunately those terms of agreement will no longer apply to me as secretaffairs.co.uk, already broke their own terms of agreement, by failing to adhere to my multiple “WRITTEN” requests via your contact page.

7 March 2022
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

I thought I'd give it a go but the…

I thought I'd give it a go but the responses from women follow the same pattern; seemingly really keen, but then don't answer any questions. If you suggest meeting up, they want to stay on the site to get to know you better, but don't ask any questions about you. And you aren't even allowed to exchange any sort of contact details at all. The system even blanked out an age that I sent in one message. Avoid

5 February 2022
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Utter scam

Utter scam, I kept getting bombarded with messages from fake profiles.

Their customer support is appaling. I've requested account deletion several times, and this is ignored. I was tempted to look into whether this is illegal under GDPR but I can't be bothered to waste more time on this bunch of crooks.

21 January 2022
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Scam Alert

This site is an absolute scam. All of the profiles appear to be fake. The fact that you cannot exchange contact details with other "members" underlines the problems with this site.

2 January 2022
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

It’s a money making site. Pure and simple.

Everyone you talk to is fine until you mention a meeting and they change the subject. This site is purely about getting men to buy credits to message. Your not allowed to swap numbers, email addresses or any contact info away from the site as the algorithm blanks them out. It’s easy to sucked in. Talked to many different women and not one is a genuine profile.

18 December 2021
Unprompted review
Rated 5 out of 5 stars

My experience

Not sure about anyone else's experience. I can only talk about my experience. I met a lot people the experience was good. I think at times some of the women in the site have very good qualities some no so much. I know that the lady I'm talking to is real, because I've met her in person.

4 January 2021
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Terrible site borderline fraudulent

Terrible site. Clearly a scam just to get you to part with your cash. Read the ts an cs on their site to see how ridiculous it is.

I’d give zero stars if I could. Don’t let them take your money.!!

5 December 2020
Unprompted review

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