Absolutely ridiculous dating site. The worst I've ever encountered. The cost to message anyone starts at £20 for 1 week!!! Yes, thats right, 1 WEEK! A 6 month subscription costs over £100. I dont know... See more
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Our time to love life together. Ourtime is the dating site for singles over 50 looking for new friends, fun activities and someone special to enjoy life with. Create your profile for free, run your search and access a list of like-minded singles who share your interests. Our Passes help you make the most of your dating experience and meet singles at your own pace: enjoy unlimited messaging with the singles you like, try voice and video calls, decide who can contact you, receive our personalised selections of singles who share your passions and interests. Enjoy reduced rates on our Activities and Outings in your area or online and meet new people who share a common interest or who simply want to relax in good company. Download our mobile app or visit www.ourtime.co.uk !
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Poor experience overall
Ok. First the positive. You can go into settings to turn off notifications. You can cancel sub via Google pay. I did meet someone and had a great time for 2 months, unfortunately it did not work out. Now the negative. Its too easy to like someone when you don't mean to, most don't reply even when matched. While viewing someone you can accidentally move on with no chance of going back. Overall for me a meh experience. Have to remember women get bombarded on there, I'm done with it anyway.
Don't use it
Don't use it, it's full of fake profiles expensive for nothing and should be reported under the trade description act
Irritatingly sticky website
Irritatingly sticky website: it refuses input data and moves on regardless. As a last resort I had to resort to changing the site's code. Avoid.
Would give a 0 rating if I could.
Would give a 0 rating if I could.
The system platform doesn't work.
You cannot verify your profile as the system reverts back to the starting point as soon as you try to initiate the verification. Helpdesk doesnt respond to the question asked but rather send random emails. If you try do cancel your membership you have to pay but cannot utilize the time left. And oh, ever so often I get presented with female matches, not what I asked for. As well with matches from a another country or other end of England despite a catching area added. Don't waste your time and money on ourtime!!!
A scammers paradise
A scammers paradise. They do not have a clear way to remove a profile, only to pay for an account. I have had to block their emails and report the company as fraudulent. Total rubbish.
Please don’t waste your time or money…
Please don’t waste your time or money this site ‘Our Time’ is nothing but a scam
Appalling ourtime
Appalling. Two people communicating with me I was interested in had matches removed. Had likes added I didn’t like. No way really of communicating or asking for help except set questions. Absolutely awful and a waste of money. Took me just a couple of days to get highly frustrated. You were bombarded before you even set up your profile.
You also when you cancel have to agree for payments when you’ve received a pathetic service. Do not touch with a barge pole.
Once you go onto their website you…
Once you go onto their website you can’t unsubscribe.
Another dating site with fake profiles
Another dating site with fake profiles, fabricated profiles to show how busy they are, annoying platforms, pushy and stupid sale tactics! A complete rip off!
I was talking to a lady and we were…
I was talking to a lady and we were getting on well, we were going to chat in the afternoon but, when I went to sign in I pressed the button a a message came up, saying that ourtime had banned for no reason. I did what the site told me to do but, I was going round in circles waste of time, they didn't ban me before I paid my money.
Fake Profile
Was Completely taken in by a Fake Profile until he got sloppy and gave the game away. Thankfully through good search engines his status was exposed. His story was believable but watch out for lengthy prose and flattery. If it’s too good to be true it usually is not true!!
A total con
A total con, a lie, completely. Why? Packed, full of false profiles, the vast majority are not true, not genuine profiles. A complete shame and only designed to deceive and take peoples cash, nothing more. This is a genuine review. Avoid, avoid , avoid.
The scammers are breeding on OurTime
The scammers are breeding on OurTime. There are so many on there, you would not believe it! I have a computer systems background so can spot them a mile off. Some other members are not so lucky and get duped! OurTime Admin are not doing their jobs and not controlling these criminals. Its easy to spot the scammers as they have hollow profiles with hardly any info about themselves. If OurTime do not get their act together soon (as of June 2026), I would honestly go elsewhere for your dating experience. Once my membership is up, I am out of there!
Well plenty looking at my profile
Well plenty looking at my profile. So I am told?? A few likes even .... I send a message and a like back.... never to hear a thing back!!!??? It's just a big con in my opinion !!!
Sadly there is nothing good to report
Sadly there is nothing good about this "service" to report. Lots of stupidly fake accounts like young 20 something bimbo's claiming to be 59.
Then there's the scam about getting "likes" from (probably fake) accounts that have no profile and if you send a message you find they've not paid and oh, why not throw good money after bad and pay for them to message you back.
This is not my first rodeo with OT and yes, I've had £ taken after I've cancelled the subscription in the past. I expect it'll be the same again.
It's awful
It's awful. The site is full of fake profiles, don't waste your money.
A terrible dating site!
Oh my god that has to be one of the worst dating sites in the world, how was I conned into joining, they must prey on the lonely and desperate I feel ashamed to have joined it. I cancelled it as soon as I realised that I wasn’t going to get any thing out of it. Avoid!!!
I've paid a subscription until 9th…
I've paid a subscription until 9th June, but the site is such a waste of time and dasher of hopes that I've uninstalled the app. They don't even allow you to delete your account via the app, insisting that you use a desktop device to access your account in order to delete it. You'll regret getting involved with this site, so best not to.
It's utter insanity! Ourtime is reaping money out of single people
You are enticed into premium membership. Bunch of fake accounts are used for this purpose. When I joined J4Meet.com
I could see right off the bat that the women on there were willing to meet without wasting my time, asking for money, etc. My experience with Ourtime was the complete opposite. It was horrible. The only three women who turned out to be real asked me to lend them some money as soon as we switched to WhatsApp. And I had to wade through plenty of scammers until I came across those three actual people who ultimately turned out to be not genuine in their intentions.
Very bad
Very bad, horrible website. There is so difficult to cancel my profile. All they doing is popping up who am I looking for. Ridiculous. I want to delete my profile. I am not interested in searching on this site!!!
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