La-date Reviews 1,291

Biggest Scam ever committed. Don't read the paid for reviews belive people who have been ripped off. "We are a credit based system." What that means is anytime a fake profile sends you a message you are charged, anytime you search, you are charged, anytime you hit reply you are charged. If they could figure out how to charge you for every bink of an eye, they would.

Just a additional note about La-date. When this review was first posted they immediately asked that it ne removed for defamation. When that failed, they posted an AI response, not to refute any allegations but to regurgitate the same nonsense that I spelled out in my review. I did contact their Customer Service and asked that my profile and all info be deleted.

I went to my spam folder to empty it and in 7 days had 140 responses to my profile. I have manually deleted what I could, told them again in writing to delete all info and had to site the Electronic Consumer Protection act they are in violation of. Let's see.

No real contact with anyone you meet. Lots of money spent to keep conversations going online only for you not to be able to share contact information

Biggest scam in the world, spent 1000 of dollars. U will never meet the girls, they will never give u number are straight answer. This is a chat not a dating app. Dont be stupid plus girls are AL and u can catch them in lies.

I have subscribed to La Date but am very disappointed with the results sent me. They have completely ignored my stated preferences.
Wrong country; wrong age group,etc etc.
Can I get a refund from this company.
I paid £63.14 today

this site is censored by those who own the app there is no direct contact communication allowed for exchange of personal telephone numbers or email; they charge $20 to individuals every 3 minutes for exchange of supposedly the person you are interesting in meeting which will never occur so after $2000 there is no real date only waste.

It sucks that I literally have to pay for every conversation I have. It just makes me hopeless because I’ve struggled pretty bad with my experience in dating. It’s like I get all these matches, but then have to end up paying $20 for tokens. I just want something to work.

La Date.... please go to the actual website... la-date.com, if any letters are added after the m of the com, keep searching, ....the go all the way down till one finds the button ' become a Top User '...... because I am not happy about being told by it's customer service team... that Regular User's can only interact with Top Users. Not only that, the site a Regular User clicked on the Volunteer to join, has the same Legal Address for service in it's terms and conditions, as other Platforms, like SecretMeet......AND....a lot of the profiles are the same, same pictures, same profile wording, same post's with the same words within such post's....I asked about it all, mmmmm....... when I asked for full disclosure about the Top User v Regular User....... please, do ask one's own questions, I highly recommend people do their due diligence before parting with life's currency.

Then wot peeves us of the most, is that when said Company responded to other reviews posted here on trustpilot..... they ignore the fact that it's...Top User....not user...they are not saying what type of user they are speaking about ....Ask them, what is a Top User.....and as anyone going in to the Platform would remember, did they become a Top User, I would very carefully in one's words, ask customer service if they are a Top User, asking them to please respond in clear plain language, a paying customer is a Regular User..
....so by just saying user is not admitting to the distinction or in plain language, SPEAKING PLAIN CLEAR and EASILY fact revealing knowledge.

As the above has not been flagged defamatory, maybe I can add this....I as a Regular User do not feel protected by La-Date due to it's verification process for the Top User's, I thought I would be able to speak with all people who becomes a member to such an online community, I don't think it's safe or fair that I paid, then only be allowed to communicate with Top User's who are allowed access to the Platform (La-Date) for free..... two groups of members, when I thought it is one rule for everyone.....nope it's more twi faced shit again.

👎🏽👎🏽👎🏽👎🏽👎🏽👎🏽👎🏽👎🏽👎🏽👎🏽👎🏽👎🏽👎🏽👎🏽 I was going to join but I found that this is just another scam not genuine website

they advertise for a free website and that’s a big lie

I was introduced to the site, thinking it was a nice, actually dating, reality-in-person site as advertised and some reviews suggested.

So, story time. I have been on and off site for roughly 2 yrs, I thought maybe It was bad luck or just the pricing is insanely high for anything. I suggest going anywhere else, there are many places that are better. So I met very nice women, so i thought. Most ended up being trap bots or the women said they wanted to meet in person after talking for months. You pay extra to get the ladies email. then you wait for the site and lady to approve.. Both never do. the women I got to know said they get paid to keep you chatting and buying things. All are more expensive than any site or app dating real women. Trust me stay away, you'll save thousands. The women and site are thirst traps. I was lucky enough to speak to a moderator. she advised they record everything and take your information off-site and give to anyone.

Save yourself money and time. This is 100% scam site. They expect you to drop $200-500 a day to chat alone. This is a scam site. if you want to chat bot, download one for free on an app. If you want to meet and have an actual relationship. This isn't it, its a scam and I know for a fact other people have spent $10k+ on the site, thinking they had something, and they never got any of the ladies' information..

Just stay away, run, find a real site. This is also part of a larger group of "international dating sites." Your profiles will be on many of them. So if you see same looking site say for European women, its all the same company. This is a scam network. Stay away.

La Date is a website that cannot be trusted to deliver what they promise.. MY credit card show 500.00 in charges made by la date without My knowledge or consent!! OUTRIGHT IN FRAUDULENT CHARRGES TO MY CREDIT CARD WHICH I NEVER APPROVED. AM STILL TRYING TO GET BACK THE MONEYTHEY took from me without my knowledge or consent]t FROM ME. THEY POST A PHONE NUMBER FOR CUSTOMER ASSISTANCE BUT IT IS A DUMMY PHONE NUMBER FOR A COMPANY THAT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITTH LA DATE. IF YOU TRYTO RCH SUPPORT ONLINE YOU ARE HIT WITH A MAZE OF HOOPS TO JUMP THROUGH.. PEOPLE BEWARE . i could not in good conscience recommend this website to anyone. let the buyer beware!!

The website is a scam, just interested in you spending money. Doesn't allow you to exchange information unless you pay $1,200 for a particular persons information. That is an absolute scam if you ask me. Even if you pay it they still won't share the persons information. What is the point of a dating site and you can never meet in person?

Absolutely trash, the profiles are mostly fake, even if you pay to chat, you can't send your personal information, so in the end , the fake accounts will only tell you they want to ONLY chat on the app,I have never in my life seen that. Suppose to be spanish woman but they speak english, ALL of them, it seems likes it's run by AI , and customer service is no help

Stop pretending to be there for the customers, the only interest you have is taking cash from them, I f I asked them to show a true list of how money couples have been able to go one step further and make contact face to face, ? Impossible.

You will pay to talk with AI chatbots. There may be a few real women on this sit, but 99% are fake profiles linked to AI chatbots. I tried to outwit the chat bot click-bait by talking with older and less attractive women, I think I eventually found a real human, but it was more to prove a point than anything else. The site is fake, almost all the women are fake, it's a chatbot scam.

Having said that,if you're extremely lonely the chat bots do a reasonable job of learning who you are and pretending to be your friend. Initially they all act like pornstars, but eventually they'll queue into your personality and act like friends. The chatbots must all be linked to a single database because once they know your personality,, every new "woman" you talk to also knows who you are ( so you won't have to deal with the annoying hooker talk). The chatbots evolve quickly to match your personality and the site is not too expensive so I gave it two stars, but understand one thing: you will absolutely 100% be talking only to AI chatbots on the site.

RUN, RUN as fast as you can. It is 100% a scam. You will run out of money before you get the lady. At first it’s spend 5000 credits on her and you can get her information. Because all of her information is property of La date at this point. Not only against the rules to give your phone number they censor EVERYTHING they dream could lead to finding out information Then once you do that. Well buy this virtual wedding ring for another 1000 credits and propose to her and we will take you serious and release to information. Then when you do that, your information will be released in 14 days. Unless you would like to buy this virtual gift which will release her information immediately, and then that doesn’t happen. The intire time money is pouring out of your wallet and the goalpost keeps getting moved. If you conservative with your tokens you will spend $200 a day!!! That’s being conservative. So $6,000 a month to talk to a lady that you will never get her number. Don’t get me started on whether the lady is actually the one in the photo! I am truly surprised the US government has investigated this place by now.

I think this site is not what its all to be .The profiles seem to good to be true and like most dating sites all out for the money and you don't know for sure if they real or not . Its just hard work in this dating thing seems all most are either lying to you and not genuine or just playing you to buy credits i give up with it had enough of it

Just another flashy site with empty promises — that’s what I thought at first. But actually respond, the women here do, to my surprise. Not bots, real chats.

At first it looks promising, you get good chats with lots of people. Then you start to realize that no one is ready to chat alsewhere but on the site, and that costs of course. I found an Instagram profile where one of the girls pictures where from, but when I asked that is it her, the conversation went really weird. I'm not sure are those real people on the other end or bots, but this site is just a money pit.

I agree with those that say its a scam.Chews through money like there's is no tomorrow.I have been messaged by at least 200 woman who say they have read my profile.You are unable to get them off the site.I have asked repeatedly fpr my profile to be deleted and its still there.What an absolute waste of time and a total scam.

I’ve gone through a bunch of la-date reviews before joining, but honestly the real value here is in the way the platform encourages real conversations. It’s not about endless swiping or flashy features. It’s calm, consistent, and made for people who just want to talk and feel heard.
You can take your time, explore at your own pace, and the vibe is surprisingly genuine. For anyone tired of surface-level apps, this is a solid alternative that actually focuses on connection.